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What is Alison in Tinderland all about?

So, you poured your heart into crafting the perfect frikkin' profile, selecting the best photos, and absorbing every tip and trick to attract your ideal partner. Yet, despite your efforts, you find yourself stuck in a never-ending loop of disappointment.

Every swipe, every message, every aubergine emoji, every date that doesn't go as planned chips away at your confidence. You're tired of being ghosted, tired of the mind games, tired of feeling like you're just not good enough.

And so you quit.

You don't have the stamina to stick with it, even though you know you have to be in the game in order to get what you want.

And the worst part? Deep down, there's a nagging voice telling you that maybe you are the problem. Maybe you're not attractive enough, interesting enough, or worthy of love.

But truly, it's not a reflection of your worthiness or desirability. It's the harsh reality of the online dating world.

I'm here to tell you that it's not your fault and to help you see the rules of the game…..because there are rules that once you know them will mean you have far more success at finding love.

You have to get good with rejection and see it for what it is.

You have to build resilience so you don’t get dating burnout (and there’s a secret place that this comes from).

And you have to get to know yourself better.

I will share with you some fundamental truths that will massively increase your chances of finding the love you have been looking for.

 AND keep your self-esteem and self-worth intact while you’re doing it.

So, if you're sick of the same old dating routine and ready to find love without losing your damn mind, this is your chance!

Scroll down to find out more.

Pay via PayPal: £497

What's included-

Six weeks of 1-1 coaching sessions and support in-between via email reflections.

Before each session you will be sent reading materials which will then be discussed, unpicked and applied personally, to you in our sessions.

What I'm going to introduce you to will build week on week into a new feeling of resilience, of your own self-worth....and not just in your on-line dating experiences but in a new way of doing life, because how you do one thing is how you do everything and this will become the key to success, wellbeing, joy and peace of mind in all areas of your life.

Why this matters-

It matters because I have seen first hand, both in myself and in others, how much fuc*ing pain not knowing how to play this game causes! Not just the on-line dating game, but the game of life.

We all want to love and to be loved, right?. You wouldn't be reading this if that wasn't the case.

But we have so much stuff that get's in the way of experiencing what we want. And it's really worth looking at it otherwise you resign your self to a future of depending on other people for your happiness, whilst at the same time not having the confidence or resilience to go after what you want, and quitting right left and centre.

And I am here to show you that its doesn't have to be that way, and to help you to do it differently.

Results-

"When I first stumbled down the rabbit hole of Alison in Tinderland, I was broken.

I've struggled with my self-worth for many years and as a consequence, romance.

I've been single for the best part of 15 years, refusing to even step inside the world of online dating because I 'knew' nobody would want me. I was convinced, without doubt, that I was unlovable.

Alison is an amazing coach, seeing things I simply could not see & helping me to shine a light on my outdated beliefs & perspectives.

Alison has helped me to understand both the illusion & the fluid nature of my thoughts. I am developing a different relationship with myself, with my thoughts, & now I recognise my approval seeking behaviours, with my Tinder matches.
 
I can now let suitors come & go without needing to coax them into liking me.
 
I can now move forward into a future where I am now in the driving seat as my authentic self.
 
I am no longer reliant on others to provide that sense of safety & wellbeing and feeling good enough.
 
I would still like to find love, but I don't need it to be OK. And I now have a new resilience to be able to stick with the process"
 
NP February 2024

Confirming the details-

There is a one-off payment of £497 to enroll on the course.

If you want to be considered for a payment plan, then ask me.

At any one time I only have space for 3 people on the programme. If those spaces are taken you can ask to go on a waiting list until there is a free place.

All the sessions will be delivered on Zoom, and as far as I can manage, at the same time and on the same evening every week and I will send you the reading materials in plenty of time beforehand.

The course is six sessions, to be taken over six weeks.

I am asking you to fully commit to this, and not to do half-arsed participation as you may have done in the past. This is you FULLY showing up for you. This work is SO needed so you can get what you want, and if you're not really up for it, please don't sign up.

We will be looking at-

Why we need a strong sense of self-worth and our long term okay-ness.
Why we need to look at where our feelings are really coming from.
Why we need to look at the nature of our self-protection strategies, and our coping mechanisms and if they are getting us what we really want.
Why we need to look at our deletions, distortions and generalisations.
And we will look at the impact of attachment styles and love languages.
 
And MOST OF ALL we need to look at what psychological and emotional safety actually is and where it comes from.
 
Because ALL of this is what will give you the stamina to keep showing up and get the results you desire.